H1b approved and H4 is in Extension already

My H1b & wife H4 visa expired on 20 September 2013. We had applied for extension together (H1 & H4) with my “A” employer in June 2013 and also had applied H1 for my wife and it got approved in September 2013 with ‘B employer’. now I have got an RFE and I am planning to upgrade to premium process.

I don’t want to disclose/withdraw my wife H4 extension from my A company as I might get problem on my H1 from my A employer.

Does it affect my wife approved H1B(with cos) as her H4 also is in process along with my H1?

Does it affect my H1 processing?

See my response in the main blog.